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How high are my walls — and can I even see them?
The fact that you're asking says a lot already.
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How it works
Answer 8 questions
Quick, honest, multiple choice. No right or wrong.
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The AI examines your connection patterns to find the gap between how much closeness you want and how much you actually allow in.
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What you'll discover
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Someone you've been getting closer to asks you a genuinely personal question. What's your instinct?
Deflect with humor or turn the question back on them
Share something real but carefully edited
Feel a flash of panic, then decide based on how safe they feel
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You're willing to be seen — in curated pieces. You hand people a highlight reel of your vulnerability, just enough to feel intimate without ever risking the parts of you that might be too much.